It's also amazing how many people suddenly find their soul mate before 30. #REIDBOOKS— Carmichael Reid (@CarmichaelReid) September 28, 2017
There is a dip in life that no one tells you about. Let's get this out of the way.
But, the secret is that there is a Romantic Dip as there is a Skill Curve in careers.
It is better to teach guys who have had early success and have simply entered reality where the game is for real.
The key is not to quit. Look around you, most guys give up and fall in love with what they can get instead of what they can have. They find girls on internet sites because they have no social life. They find girls on Facebook or through friends because they have no social life.
You need to start partying and throwing parties again. How do you do that? It's a process.
Realizing that you need to create your own social life is essential to realizing where you are.
The parties dry the fuck up at 30. You need to U-Turn it.
The Romantic Dip is when you leave high school and college and enter every day hum-drum life.
Either there are dudes who get laid on the regular in their 20s and dry up in their 40s...
or
There are guys who don't get laid in their 20s and get laid like champs in their 40s.
You can have it both ways but that's rare and really hard to do. Because Customers who produce your money need 100% attention and being a socialite around attractive and valuable women needs 100% attention.
You will not find the girls you want on the internet. That's where they hang out for vanity and attention. They may have an internet site, primarily to test the water and validate their looks, but for the most part, this is a face to face business.
Girlschase.com is a good site for this.
Do you know where you find girls? You find girls where they want to find men.
Men are not hunters. Females are hunters. Don't you ever get it the other way around. It is not true. If men are, they are very bad hunters. I have been on every forum in the Manosphere. These guys are retards.
What separates World Class Hunters and low-result hobbyists is the ability to think like their prey. To become one with their prey. Most guys in general love to chat useless theory about chicks instead of going for it. They like to do data reports and shit like that, but it seems like they are more in it for the approval of men instead of the approval of themselves. Notice how I didn't say the approval of women.
That comes later, waaay later.
The best way to find chicks is where chicks want to find men they like.
Chicks understand time more than men do. Chicks' value is more dependent on time. But, again, there are plenty of great looking chicks in their late 30s. I'm not going to discriminate.
But the point is...
Like marketing, you cannot be looking for whales in dive bars. As you cannot find great girls in
The problem most guys have is upping their value. Just being seen in a
I know this is the wheelhouse for most guys. It's not money, but what type of money you have. Also, it's not just money, there has to be an attraction there t
Attractive women float to the top.
Like the Super Rich and the Super Poor are hidden.
This is the same with women.
There is a degree of entitlement that most guys have when they think they should just get an 8 without earning the skills to get and keep them. There is tons of stupid boneheaded and bankrupting advice out there. I actually heard a guy advise a dude to buy a used Rolex to get a chick.
You don't need to spend money to get chicks. But you need wealth aka autonomy where you can travel when and where you want and afford to stay in nice places that can both benefit your wallet and your sex life. That's why I never did hostels or anything like that.
1. You need access.
There is no point being rich if you can't get a reservation at a great restaurant.
No one really cares if you're rich or not. But the status that comes with it is essential.
You need to be known for something. That they find valuable.
I did the film thing early to make sure that I am not bullshitting that I am in the film business.
Status is only valued if the person who is interest is impressed by it.
Usually they are only impressed by it if they can get something from it today.
Being a radio host who was hot 30 years ago is nothing.
One thing I'm really watching out for is irrelevant and false prophets.
Because when the tide goes out. The ladies leave. Then they brag about getting drunk with a bunch of dudes.
The great thing about having unique taste is that most of the chicks that I like are over looked because they aren't the "Blonde Playboy" model. I can't teach you how to get that. You won't find happiness with those women.
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